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Resources by Category: Self-help

Some self-help exercises for individuals and couples including an articles on types of negative thinking you may (probably do!) have, and a solution-oriented remedy, and many others.

Couples / Self-help

Five poetic stages of healing, couples version

The stages of a relationship conflict from unconsciousness to understanding, based on the poem...

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Couples / Self-help

The Red Flag couples self-help exercise

If you both do it, the Red Flag exercise can cut through fights and...

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Couples / Self-help

The best sexual self-help advice for couples – the best!

Simple but helpful sexual self-help advice that can really deepen sexual intimacy in your...

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Self-help

A relaxation technique

This is my version of “the relaxation response”,  a simple way to bring calm...

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Couples / Self-help

If it doesn’t work, do anything different

Are you caught in repeating loops? Don't wait for tenderness and openness to stop...

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Self-help

The barefoot stress counsellor: a solution-oriented self-help tool

This is a good self-help technique which is different and effective. Its a series...

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Couples / Self-help

Snuggle up, talk about films, save your marriage

This is a fun, easy but deep, research-validated couples self-help exercise to bring you...

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Couples / Self-help

A few good relationship self-help books

A short list of self-help books on relationships that are actually helpful. No standard...

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Couples / Self-help

List of romantic films for the couples self-help exercise

A list of films from the movie relationship self-help exercise. You can use any other...

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