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Resources by Category: Couples

Some resources for couples including self-help exercises, a short of less well known books, and the wonderful but little known Watch Movies exercise.

Couples / Self-help

Five poetic stages of healing, couples version

The stages of a relationship conflict from unconsciousness to understanding, based on the poem...

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Couples / Self-help

The Red Flag couples self-help exercise

If you both do it, the Red Flag exercise can cut through fights and...

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Couples / Self-help

The best sexual self-help advice for couples – the best!

Simple but helpful sexual self-help advice that can really deepen sexual intimacy in your...

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Couples / Popular songs with wisdom; poems

Love songs with a truth, not merely a feeling

Most popular songs about two people in relationship express an emotion. A small number...

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Couples / Self-help

If it doesn’t work, do anything different

Are you caught in repeating loops? Don't wait for tenderness and openness to stop...

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Couples / Pages being edited Feb 2026 / Self-help / Stub

Don’t say what you don’t want and get not understood

If you don't know what you want, you won't get it.

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Couples / Pages being edited Feb 2026

Questions to ask from the heart

This post is about trying different things. Particularly it’s about doing what works, not...

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Couples / Self-help

Snuggle up, talk about films, save your marriage

This is a fun, easy but deep, research-validated couples self-help exercise to bring you...

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Couples / Self-help

A few less well known self-help books

A short list of self-help books on relationships that are actually helpful. No standard...

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