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Some of these resource pages originated as questions my clients have asked me. Others started life as handouts, others are topics I felt moved to post about after some particular session brought the topic to mind. They are therefore not systematic or comprehensive, but I hope may be of interest.

Meditation articles

Mindfulness can’t escape the sacred

Real meditation, of any school, moves inevitably towards the sacred. Secularised mindfulness...

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“Radical” meditation

Some schools of meditation, including Advaita, Buddhism, Osho, Zen and many others,...

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“Thoughts” includes EVERYTHING

Watch your thoughts - yes. But "thoughts" includes all your hopes, dreams,...

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Radical non-duality: The Song of Ashtavakra

The Song of Ashtavakra presents in a few compressed pages the same...

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Thoughts are physical, not mental

The buzzing thoughts that interfere with happiness and won’t go away when you meditate...

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Meditation is not Stop Action

There’s nothing in the definition of meditation about sitting still or closing...

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Meditation: not sitting still

The definition of meditation: relaxed, alert, no judgements. No reference to breathing,...

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Mindfulness madness in the US military

Soldiers meditating before they fight and kill; how scientific "mindfulness" has misunderstood...

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Couples / Popular songs with wisdom; poems

Love songs with a truth, not merely a feeling

Most popular songs about two people in relationship express an emotion. A...

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Couples / Self-help

If it doesn’t work, do anything different

Are you caught in repeating loops? Don't wait for tenderness and openness...

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Couples / Pages being edited Feb 2026 / Self-help / Stub

Don’t say what you don’t want and get not understood

If you don't know what you want, you won't get it.

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Couples / Pages being edited Feb 2026

Questions to ask from the heart

This post is about trying different things. Particularly it’s about doing what...

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Meditation articles

Everyone longs for love, few long for meditation

All of us long for love. Very few long for meditation.

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Meditation and mindfulness in therapy

I can’t imagine therapy separate from meditation. They are intertwined. Many aspects of...

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Following your inner voice: Peter Gabriel’s Solsbury Hill

This is the first of a series of posts on changing your...

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